My name is Tomlin, and I am non-binary
So here goes. A life-long struggle to understand myself in so many ways and more than eight years of true… Read More »My name is Tomlin, and I am non-binary
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Counting your blessings
Today is the Autumn equinox, when the days and nights equalise again and the darkness really begins to take over… Read More »Counting your blessings
A glossary of terms relating to sex and gender
This article outlines facts about sex and gender in the simple form of a glossary of relevant terms. Please ask as many genuine questions as you like, but please note that any argument against gender diversity, or any form of discrimination or abuse against any of the LGBTQIA+ community will be removed immediately without discussion. You may also be reported and/or blocked.
Why I am not an “autism parent”
I hear many, many parents of autistic children calling themselves “autism parents” and for multiple reasons this is wrong, and… Read More »Why I am not an “autism parent”
I don’t want to belong anymore
I don’t want to belong anymore. In fact, more than that, I don’t want to want to belong anymore. It’s… Read More »I don’t want to belong anymore
Changing The name PDA
I had been meaning to write a full article regarding my thoughts on the name for my neurotype “Pathological Demand… Read More »Changing The name PDA
Pathological avoidance is distinct from autistic avoidance
So many professionals, “experts” other autistics and even people in the PDA community do not understand this distinction and it… Read More »Pathological avoidance is distinct from autistic avoidance
The ADHD tax is high
It costs a lot of money being neurodivergent, especially in the ADHD type. That might sound ridiculous but it is… Read More »The ADHD tax is high
Dear media consumers… STOP
Dear consumers and families I know it is tempting. I know it detracts from our mundane and sometimes exhausting lives.… Read More »Dear media consumers… STOP